Pregnancy is a funny thing – on one hand it’s exhausting, scary, restrictive and increasingly uncomfortable, but on the other it’s the most incredible, humbling, joyful experience. Here are my pregnancy pros and cons:
Acid indigestion / fruit flavoured Rennies – Yum!
The baby kicking when I’m trying to sleep / the baby kicking at any other time
The constant exhaustion / having an excuse for an afternoon nap
The bad moods and weepiness / the heart-fluttering excitement
Not being able to drink / no more hangovers
Looking like a Weeble / not having to suck my stomach in
Not being able to eat prawns or sushi / being able to eat more of everything else
Humping my bump on public transport / always getting a seat (even if I have to guilt people into it…)
Having to wear maternity clothes / elasticated waistbands
Having to go to the loo ALL. THE. TIME! / sorry, couldn’t think of an upside to this one…
Childbirth (the delivery part) / childbirth (the newborn baby part)
So, those are my pregnancy pros and cons – what are yours?
Having been through pregnancy once it kind of uts me off going through it again – the positive is I at least know it does end! Also the end product is more than worth it
ah…so agree…you look utterly blooming…was the picture taken now, or when you were pregnant with Lucia?..the upside to peeing all the time is you actually get a few minutes to yourself!!!
You look blooming’ lovely!! I didn’t look that good! Your baby is gorgeous all tbat dark hair! It’s all worth everything g when that bundle of loveliness comes out 🙂
KT: I know what you mean! At first it seems such a long, daunting, process, but now I’m 2/3rds through I can look back and think it wasn’t THAT bad…
Jen: It’s just lucky the little monkeys are sooooo cute and cancel out all the rubbish bits you go through before hand!
Mummy Bear: This was pregnancy number one – when I actually felt amazing from month 3 – 8!! This time round, as you know all too well yourself, I just feel like various degrees of crap.
Want to Know More? If it’s any consolation, I do NOT look like that this time around!!! More glowering, than glowing…
Titch: It’s that selective memory thing, right? Otherwise no one in their right mind would have more than one kid!
Laura: And to rest your hands on top of. My 2-year-old (that’s actually her in the first pic – I’m not quite that big yet, although not far off!) used it as a pillow today. It’s a multi-purpose bump.
Someone has got to help us with the going to the loo all the time thing! Its awful! I dont have this problem during the day but night times! its just not fair! I try not to drink anything after six which is difficult as I love my tea! By the way I’m not pregnant Ive had five babies,so I guess thats the problem!! More excersise will do the trick I suppose!
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Having been through pregnancy once it kind of uts me off going through it again – the positive is I at least know it does end! Also the end product is more than worth it
The end justifies the means! Yep, agree with every single point you made:) Jen
ah…so agree…you look utterly blooming…was the picture taken now, or when you were pregnant with Lucia?..the upside to peeing all the time is you actually get a few minutes to yourself!!!
You look blooming’ lovely!! I didn’t look that good! Your baby is gorgeous all tbat dark hair! It’s all worth everything g when that bundle of loveliness comes out 🙂
Ahhh. Gorgeous bubba. Makes me want to do it again (almost). The good definitely outweighs the bad in the end.
You look gorgeous! All bump! I love baby bumps, wish I was still pregnant to have one. So handy to rest your dinner plate on LOL
KT: I know what you mean! At first it seems such a long, daunting, process, but now I’m 2/3rds through I can look back and think it wasn’t THAT bad…
Jen: It’s just lucky the little monkeys are sooooo cute and cancel out all the rubbish bits you go through before hand!
Mummy Bear: This was pregnancy number one – when I actually felt amazing from month 3 – 8!! This time round, as you know all too well yourself, I just feel like various degrees of crap.
Want to Know More? If it’s any consolation, I do NOT look like that this time around!!! More glowering, than glowing…
Titch: It’s that selective memory thing, right? Otherwise no one in their right mind would have more than one kid!
Laura: And to rest your hands on top of. My 2-year-old (that’s actually her in the first pic – I’m not quite that big yet, although not far off!) used it as a pillow today. It’s a multi-purpose bump.
From one who doesn’t do babies (as you know), this is a great post! Sweet!!!
The good side to the last (sort of) is that the clothes they have today are easier to use in the loo. I buy mine at Penneys using JCPenny coupons.
Someone has got to help us with the going to the loo all the time thing! Its awful! I dont have this problem during the day but night times! its just not fair! I try not to drink anything after six which is difficult as I love my tea! By the way I’m not pregnant Ive had five babies,so I guess thats the problem!! More excersise will do the trick I suppose!